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It is a pleasure to see that our first issue was received
so well by the majority of the people that read it.
But the editors aren't the all seeing, the all knowing.
We aren't gurus. We are normal people that help provide
information to the general population, through the input
and creativity of others. You may be gratified to know
that others have come forth and offered their support
of this project. We can only hope that you will come
forth and provide your viewpoints as well.
We attempt to provide reliable and informed opinions
and information about any religion that we can. We attempt
to display it in a positive light, or provide constructive
criticism if it is seen fit. Currently we provide holiday
briefs for religions that we are not members of. We
are hoping that people of these faiths and others will
come forth and provide a more informed viewpoint. As
one letter to us inadvertently implied, even those of
a single faith may not agree due to various differences.
Very few religions are stagnant. Most are evolving.
The pace of the evolution does not necessarily relate
to the validity or age of the religion. Nor does it
signify the open-mindedness of the practitioners. Religions
change due to regional, cultural, economical, and spiritual
needs. When changes occur in religions, it can cause
splits in the religions, new sects because of people's
ability of inability to change. Neither is wrong, although
it is interesting to see the particular viewpoints.
Sometimes we have more in common than we realize.
Please feel free to Sound Off
on anything we, or other authors have written. The whole
point of Pagan Moon is to provide accurate information
on religions. If no one writes, we won't have all the
knowledge necessary to provide the whole picture. We
may even be wrong and we hope you will correct us in
that case.
Please help us to help you and others. Education begins
with a single viewpoint. A single article may not have
the ability to change perception in everyone. But if
it sparks inspiration it may be all that is required
to start the ball rolling.
Neal
Levin
CO-Editor-In-Chief

I was going to begin this article with
a definition, from a dictionary, of the word family.
I ran into one small problem. It seems even the dictionary
can't decide on one "true" meaning of the word. I consulted
several dictionaries and each had a minimum of six definitions
of the word. That's a little more reference information
than most people want to process before reading something
for enjoyment. So, that aside I want to talk about the
meaning of the word family. Family is perhaps one of
the more subjective words in our language, right up
there with things like love, happiness and beauty.
To me the word family conjures up many
things: my parents, my siblings, my cousins, my aunts
and uncles, my grandmother, my husband, my in-laws and
so much more. I'm lucky my family isn't just made up
of the people I'm related to by blood and marriage.
I have family that chose me as I chose them because
of the love we have for each other.
I'd like to give you an example. I got
married this past fall. I had a pretty intensely hands
on wedding. We did a lot of things "ourselves" rather
than pay someone for them. I had a Saturday wedding.
The Friday before my family and I set up.
My mom was there, coordinating solving
problems and keeping us on track, all while working
as hard as everyone else there. My sisters were there.
Biologically I only have one sister, I found out that
weekend, that I'm blessed and have many sisters. These
amazing women set up the hall with me on a nasty humid
day in a building without air conditioning. We started
out with a Girl Scout Camp Dining hall and ended up
with a fair approximation of a Great Hall. They stuffed
favor bags, they made and arranged centerpieces, they
swept and scrubbed, helped prepare the rehearsal dinner
and many, many other things. When we had a thunderstorm
during the rehearsal dinner that destroyed the directional
signs I had made; they stayed up late and made new ones.
No one complained. They showed up the day after the
wedding and cleaned up, working just as hard as they
had setting up. That's not even mentioning the one who
did my flowers, the sister who did my hair and make-up,
the one who sewed me in my dress when we realized some
ribbons were still just pinned and I had lost my buttons
or the one who sewed my veil to it's head band when
I ran out of time. Only one of those women shares my
blood.
My Dad was there, he built a tent wall
for me out of fabric and 1x2's with the help of my brother.
Again, I only have one biological brother, but I found
out that weekend that I'm blessed with several brothers.
They also toiled for nothing but the love they have
for my husband and I. Even before that weekend, one
of these men made all of the leather jerkins for the
groomsmen and made two more with only one week's notice
when some things came up backordered. These men showed
up the day after the wedding for clean up and again
toiled. As with my sisters I can't begin to list everything
they did. From staying and helping my husband and I
load our gifts into the car when everyone else had left,
to taking up the post of "guard" at the entrance arch,
to keeping the groom calm these men were there. One
of them said the words that consecrated my marriage.
I heard the phrases, "tell me what you
need", "what can I do" and "whatever you need" more
time than I can count in those three days. My wedding
was beautiful but it would have been nothing without
my family. I would do the same for them, cheerfully
and without complaint. My family is the people who love
me, support me, nurture me and give of themselves freely.
I can only hope that each of these people see me in
the same light and that I will do the same for them
when it is needed.
My family includes folk of about every
persuasion that exists yet we're a whole. Some people
may say these people are "just friends," but to me,
they're family as real as the one I was born into. If
we each look around us we may realize that we have family
we've never thought about, that we're far more connected
than we ever realized.
Best Wishes,
Morte Portney
CO-Editor-In-Chief
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